

The Father That Was Never to Be ...
Last year on Father’s Day, I wrote about traveling to Japan to meet my father for the first time. We had four long visits. I grew to like...


I Needed that Little White Baby Seal ...
When I entered the first grade, I had just been speaking English for about a year, just since I left my OBaachan with my adoptive...


The Scar Enveloped My Left Forearm … Forever ...
At four and half years old, I was still living with my Obaachan in the little apartment in Chofu, Japan. Adjacent to the kitchen area...


I went to Japan. I met my Father ...
In Post WWII Japan, my father was an Army Intelligence Officer when he met my mother. He and my mother actually had a 10 year loving...


My Mother is Still Dead ...
But I’m grown up now. I’m now over 60 (had my birthday). Most people I know my age, and even younger, have lost their parents. That’s the...


I Lived With My Obaachan Until I was Five ...
Although my father made me half Irish, I was completely Japanese. Japanese was my first language. My Obaachan was pre-war Japanese. I had...